Thursday, March 25, 2010

LOVE

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”

I Corinthians 13:4-8


Wednesday, March 17, 2010

今天的再见是为了以后的再相见?

从今天起,现在起,这一刻开始..是个新的开始..
今天是17日..是我们正式在一起的日子,也是正式分开的日子..
从在一起到分开事隔2年11个月..
在这期间有欢笑有泪水..有生气的也有值得纪念的..
这感情也算经历了不少的风风雨雨..
可惜这一次我们解决不了存在着的问题..
也过不了距离与时差这一关..
科技的先进在我们的感情里起不了多大的作用..

或许这样的一个决定对大家都好..
给大家空间与时间寻找我们失去的..
反正各自有各自的生活,有不同的目标..
乘年轻为课业与事业打拼是我们的责任之一吧..
你也是为了(我们的)将来未雨绸缪吧?
我依然相信你..支持你..

与以往不同的..是我们的身份..
从今天起再不会有你的晚安信息..
早上起来电话的荧幕不会显示"有新信息"..
没人叮咛我一定要吃饱饱..要早点睡觉..
不会有人唠叨我说..不要太夜才洗澡,洗头..不要翘课..
或正当我在为生活及课业忙碌时为我加油打气..
从今天起就不能再依赖你了..就得学会习惯没有你的生活....

"Nothing is PERMANENT, except CHANGE"
眼前改变的是settings..
未来如果心没变..再给彼此重新开始的机会吧..
希望这会是个好的转变..

p/s: 很感谢两位好友在这艰难的时候陪伴着我..鼓励我..友谊万岁!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

下雨天

南拳妈妈- 下雨天
下雨天了怎么办 我好想你
不敢打给你 我找不到原因
为什么失眠的声音 变得好熟悉
沉默的场景
做你的代替
陪我听雨滴
期待让人越来越沉溺
谁和我一样 等不到他的谁
爱上你我总在学会 寂寞的滋味
一个人撑伞
一个人擦泪
一个人好累
怎样的雨 怎样的夜
怎样的我能让你更想念
雨要多大 天要多黑
才能够有你的体贴
其实 没有我你分不出那些 差别
结局还能多明显
别说你会难过
别说你想改变
被爱的人不用道歉

这首歌很适合我现在的心情,你能明白或体会那感觉吗?有太多太多的话想对你说,可是不知道该从哪里说起。我们的问题一直存在着,我没办法若无其事。你我都在感情路上遇上瓶颈了吧?都不知道该怎么走下去了吧。就让时间为我们解答,好吗?无论如何,我会记得你对我的好,你为我做的一切,我们一起闹出的笑话,我们一起经历过的,我们的点点滴滴,这一切的一切都是我们一起拥有的美好回忆。真心诚意祝福你。


Saturday, March 13, 2010

Stay Cool

Today's weather is super nice..clear sky..sunny day..
Supposed to be a good day to go out.......to the CITY!
Haven't been to the city since i came back last month lo T_T
The worse thing is i've got class..its Saturday leh..
some more the class is from 9am to 5pm T________T
but luckily its only for this weekend..so not so bad la..
Anyway..
here's the interesting thing i saw when i was at Caulfield campus..
"A picture worth a thousand words"
so here you go
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-STAY COOL-

Isn't this COOL??



Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Does Money Buy Happiness? New Research Says Maybe

Here's another nice post to share..enjoy~~

The common scientific answer to the question, does money buy happiness, has been no. Study after study has shown that once your basic needs are met and you are not living in poverty, more money does not make you happier. Doctors Norton (Harvard Business School), Dunn and Aknin (both at University of British Columbia) wondered if the issue was not that money couldn't buy happiness but that people simply weren't spending it in the right way to make themselves happier.

Prosocial Spending
They conducted three different studies that explored whether prosocial spending, that is giving gifts to charities or friends, would increase happiness where spending on selfish interests did not. First, they surveyed more than 600 Americans and found that spending more on gifts and charity correlated with greater happiness, whereas spending more money on oneself did not. Next, they tracked 16 workers before and after they received profit-sharing bonuses and found that that the workers who gave more of the money to others ended up happier than the ones who spent more of it on themselves. In fact, how the bonus was spent was a better predictor of happiness than the size of the bonus. Finally, they gave 46 students $5 or $20 to spend by the end of the day. The ones who were instructed to spend the money on others were happier at the end of the day than the ones who were instructed to spend the money on themselves.

"These experimental results," the researchers conclude, "provide direct support for our causal argument that spending money on others promotes happiness more than spending money on oneself." They also conclude that "how people choose to spend their money is at least as important as how much money they make."

All Charitable Giving Makes You Happier
According to the Social Capital Community Benchmark Survey, a survey of 30,000 American households, people who gave money to charity in 2000 were 43% more likely than non-givers to say they were "very happy" about their lives. It didn't matter whether gifts of money and time went to churches or symphony orchestras - givers to all types of religious and secular causes were far happier than non-givers.

Giving to Charity Gives Hope
People who give also are less sad and depressed than non-givers. The University of Michigan's Panel Study of Income Dynamics reveals that people who gave money away in 2001 were 34% less likely than non-givers to say that they had felt "so sad that nothing could cheer them up" in the past month. They were also 68% less likely to have felt "hopeless," and 24% less likely to have said that "everything was an effort."

Does money buy happiness? Yes money spent on helping others does buy happiness according to how to be happy research. Spread your happiness and money around by giving to a good cause or person today.

p/s: Are you happy? Do you need more money to 'buy' you happiness?